Grace doesn't depend on suffering to exist, but where there is suffering you will find grace in many facets and colors.
All I want from you is to trust me with what little you can, and grow in loving people around you with the same love I share with you. It's not your job to change them, or to convince them. You are free to love without an agenda.
Each relationship between two persons is absolutely unique. That is why you cannot love two people the same. It simply is not possible. You love each person differently because of who they are and the uniqueness that they draw out of you.
Life takes a bit of time and a lot of relationship.
So many believe that it is love that grows, but it is the knowing that grows and love simply expands to contain it.